Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Joyce

Joyce is five years old and recently she and her mother showed up at our gate asking for help.  Joyce had what are clearly large tumors on the sides of her face and her mother was at a loss about what to do.  So yesterday I drove them to Sengerema, a town about 35 minutes away, to go the hospital there, which is better than ours here in Geita.  
It is difficult to really describe the state of health care in Tanzania.  There are few doctors and millions of patients.  There is a shortage of medicine, medical equipment, beds, and really just about anything else you can think of related to health care.  
When we got to the hospital, we first had to go to a window to pay to get a registration card.  I was pleasantly surprised when we got to the window because there was an actual line there, which is pretty unusual.  After about 15 minutes, though, some people decided lines were a waste of time and they just started pushing towards the front to cut in.  This is just the Tanzanian way; it’s not rude at all, though as an American I often find it both annoying and inefficient.  However, after only 30 minutes we were able to pay the 65 cents and got our receipt so that we could jump in the mass of people at the reception window and begin pushing our way to the front to actually get the card we payed for.  When we got to that window, there were about 40 people all trying to accomplish the same thing.  We were successful after about an hour, which was actually sooner than I expected.  While waiting, a car drove up and some men got out and ran into the hospital.  They returned shortly with a rusty metal table on wheels.  They proceeded to carefully extract a man from their car and gently move him onto the table.  He looked barely conscious.  Certainly very sick.  Not a single person working at the hospital came to assist.  You’re on your own here.  There’s just not enough people to help.  
After we got the registration card we were told to go wait in front of one of the doctor’s doors.  There were four doors and bunches of people waiting outside each one.  We settled on number four and eventually were shown in only to be told we needed to go to the pediatric wing.  So off we went across the courtyard, following the sounds of crying babies.  We were able to see a pediatrician fairly quickly--only about a 30 minute wait.  I’ve waited longer than that in the States.  He diagnosed Joyce with tuberculosis.  We would need to see a different doctor for more complicated problems.  He sent us to get blood work done.  One of the administrators of the hospital was there and showed me their new blood analysis machines.  He showed me how they only take 2 minutes to process the results.  Great, I thought, no waiting.  We were told to wait outside for the results, which I knew were already done.  An hour later that same administrator passed and asked what we were doing.  When we told him still waiting, he hurried into the lab and returned about 5 seconds later with the results, now stapled to her card.  
We took these results back to the specialized doctor and he confirmed it was indeed TB and that they needed to schedule a biopsy to find out whether or not the tumors are malignant.  I’m taking Joyce back next week for the operation.  About 50% of all TB patients die.  She has an even less likely chance as she’s a child in Africa with the TB already spread out of her lungs.  She’s such a sweet little girl and so scared.  
We got back to Geita about 6 1/2 hours after we left that morning.  A typical day for the hospital.  Please pray for Joyce and for her mother, Zam Zam, who in all likelihood has it as well.  Sometimes things just don’t seem fair in Tanzania. 

Saturday, January 29, 2011

This Week In Pictures

This past week we've been having so much fun with Brett's sister Brittney and her boyfriend, Mitchell.  Baylor has especially loved all the extra attention.  But it's also been a busy week, so my post is just going to be some pictures.  I figure that's what everyone really wants anyway.  





Thursday, January 20, 2011

The First Word

Baylor has officially said her first word.  By that I mean she consistently uses the correct word for the object in question.  She's been talking non-stop for the last 8 months, even saying mama and baba and all kinds of other things that are actually words without knowing their meaning.  She sounds a great deal like the Swedish Chef from the Muppets.

But for the last week or so she has said "dog" every time she sees a dog or hears it bark.  This seems a bit unfair to Mama and Baba after all the hard work they've done.  I mean, what has the dog done?  I don't even remember spending a great deal of time trying to get her to learn the word dog.  She doesn't even like them that much.  If they get to close she gets scared.  Oh well, i figure other words are soon to follow and eventually some of them will be "Mom, you're the most super thing in the whole world, even more super than cheerios and bananas."

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Holidays and Things

I've been trying to get this post up forever, but between internet failings and a stomach virus making its way through our family over the last 8 days, I seem to have been defeated until today.

We had a nice Christmas.  Brett and I stuffed each others' stockings with random things we found in Geita, including fruit magnets, actual fruit, a bicycling jersey, snickers bars, a panda bear toothbrush, and tic tacs, among other things.  Baylor enjoyed opening up her cheerios and safari truck, complete with animals.




That afternoon our team came over for Christmas dinner and a silly gift exchange.  The kids exchanged real gifts and Baylor got this truck from the Groen girls, which she loves.

While the adults played Balderdash the older kids watched a movie and Baylor and Jude played on Baylor's new banana tree bark table and chairs.


All in all, a nice Christmas, even though it was weird for it to be 80 degrees and not a single shopping mall Santa in sight.

Friday, December 24, 2010

Unique Tree Decorating Tips

Baylor has enjoyed having the Christmas tree up immensely.  The bottom third of our tree has only unbreakable ornaments so that she can take them on and off as she pleases.  She has even taken part in the decorating herself.  I have found a bell pepper and a jar of puffs in the tree.  My personal favorite though, was a game of cribbage.

Thursday, December 23, 2010

More Birthday Fun

For my birthday this year, I got the best present ever.  My friend RaDora came to see me for 2 whole weeks.  She brought loads of goodies for birthdays and Christmas, but mostly I was just happy she brought herself.  RaDora and I were interns together in Jinja, Uganda almost 10 years ago during college and this was her first time to revisit the continent since then.  



While Brett made blueberry waffles for breakfast, RaDora made me a strawberry cake with cream cheese icing.  So delicious.  We went out to the gold mine for lunch where we were joined by our whole team.  


How wonderful it is to know that it takes fewer candles to write out the age you are than to just put that many on the cake.  


After lunch we spent the afternoon playing squash and lounging by the pool.  For dinner we ate homemade pizza and then played a game.  I love my birthday.  

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Baylor's 1st Birthday

Yesterday was Baylor's first birthday.  It's crazy how fast it's gone by.  Baylor is full of life.  She's adventurous, loud, and has unending energy.  She doesn't like to stop for anything, including sleep.  Her laugh is infectious (though to be fair, so is her grumpiness) and her smile just makes me happy.  

Baylor continues to love to eat and is finally starting to gain a little bit of the weight that all that food consumed should bring.  She's still pretty small though.  She started wearing her 9-12 month clothes a month ago.  She loves being outside.  I look forward to the day when our yard is something other than dirt and mud so she can go play anytime she wants, instead of it being a special treat.  Baylor walks all the time now and has started trying to run, which generally means she ends up face down on the ground and crying.  But babies are resilient so she just gets up and does it again.  Her hobbies these days include taking items out of larger items and putting them back in and bringing things to me and taking them back and bringing them to me again.  I've had a lot of Christmas tree ornaments in my lap lately.  Baylor also loves to swim so we try to get her in the water as often as we can.  Bath time's fun, but it's just not the same.

Yesterday we went to Mwanza to pick up one of my best friends, RaDora, for her two week visit and then headed back to Geita for Baylor's birthday party.  We asked our teammates to come over a little early and get the grill started with some hamburgers since we would be on the road, and they went above and beyond.  We arrived to a house decorated and sparkly.  It was great.


I made a cake for the occasion, completely from scratch (though only because I couldn't find any cake mix anywhere in Geita, Mwanza, or Kigali) and even decorated it.  Baylor was super excited anticipating it's deliciousness, though I think ended up being exhausted by her efforts to consume as much sugar as possible in the largest bites that could possibly fit in her mouth.  


The birthday t-shirt was a present from RaDora -- very cute.  Baylor also got some other great presents and enjoyed opening them once she realized how to do it.  


All in all, it was a great day and we're so thankful that God put Baylor in our lives!